Marriage a Fad???

Marriage a Fad???

O yes spring is here and Love is in the air…..Yup it’s that season again. What season you ask? Well duh, it’s Marriage Season….where the Ladies becomes brides…and the Men become grooms.

As lovely and Great Marriage is has it been turned from something sacred and cherished to something that’s just a fad?


Now a day’s people are getting married like they change the color of their hair. You know put the dye in and then have to keep doing that touch up. When did something sacred become something like “O I'm going to do it because she is doing it”, or “you might as well marry me”.

 

Maybe it’s just me, Maybe I’m just old fashioned. But I rather the surprise of not knowing that he is going to purpose. I rather be madly and deeply in love and not have a doubt in my mind that he is the one.

All I’m saying is wait, don’t rush it. O yes the wedding will be nice. And the Party will be one to remember. But when it is all said and done…and it’s just you and him there, will it still be that amazing? Or will you wonder “what the hell did I get myself into?”

{Jaded Advice ~Don’t follow the Fad, Follow your heart. A Fad is temporary, while matters of the heart are forever}

"IF HE BOYCOTTS VALENTINES DAY..."

"IF HE BOYCOTTS VALENTINES DAY..."

Many girls look forward to valentines day since they had a hint of a clue what love was.....Boys from the beginning of time have always felt it was a stupid holiday.

Some have even been quoted saying

When I say I do.......

When I say I do.......

Well its 47 days until my older sister ties the knot....and I am so happy for her. The planning and everything is going rather smoothly and she has her dress as well as most of the bridesmaids have their dresses. Everything is going according to plan.

Happy New Year!!!!

Happy New Year!!!!

Happy New Year!!!

So everyone always creates "New Years" resolutions, for 2011 I have none. Every day is a new day we need to make changes for everyday not just Jan 1^st of the next year. That's the only way to really change.

But I figured we have some tips on how to make 2011 a better year.

So here are my top 7 tips for living in 2011. Why 7? Well because 7 is the number of completion??

1.

Love yourself –Before you can let anyone in to love you, you have to love yourself.

2.

Forgive someone- Let the power of forgiveness take you away and set you free. Grudges are old news.

3.

Finish something- Procrastination is the poison to your destiny. Start something and finish it.

4.

Embrace yourself- There is only one Lady Gaga and Nicki Minaj so there is only one of you. So be you it's easier!!

5.

Dance in the rain- Let the stress of life wash away (get your hair wet). Sometimes we have to let problems roll off our back.

6.

Say thank you- A simple act of kindness can change someones day, why not let it change yours.

7. 

Finally- Don't just exist but live. Do all the crazy insane things you want…don't worry about what people think..Just do it!!!

{Jaded Advice Live everyday like it's your last}

For The Love Of Another

For The Love Of Another

The story hits so close to home so I think where do I begin. I guess from the beginning.

So it all starts with someone very close to me who found out she was pregnant. Of course her reaction was scared and excitement to know that she was about to be a mom. We were all rooting for her, and of course planning the baby shower and talking about names.

But all our sunny days and bright colors of joy ended when she was 10 weeks, the doctor told her that the baby was developing with abnormalities. Then stating she wouldn't make it full term. She left the doctor's office heartbroken and crushed. But she had Faith that everything would work out for the best.

And with that Faith we came together and we prayed for God to work a Miracle. The Doctors wanted her to abort telling her the quality of life for her little girl wouldn't be good. She didn't want to, holding on to her faith-she continued on.

And at her 22 week mark, the fatal news came that they couldn't find a heart beat for the baby.

And with all the Faith that the mommy held dear she thought what better name for her little Angel then Faith. It is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen. What a love to hold near. Now even though Faith is no longer with us, she is now the special Angel for her mom. A little guide to get her through life

I am not exactly sure what this mom is going through right now to carry a child and to bond with that child only to loose it.

But there are people out there that do understand what she is going through.

Here is the Plack that they sent her_in memory of her little girl Faith Moriah Harley....We love you baby girl!!

And thanks to forevrmyangel.com for showing love and support for these mothers in their time of need. I think it is really a great job that you are doing being able to touch someones heart. If you know someone that may have gone through this or something similar pass on the info. They are great people, very caring & encouraging.


http://www.forevrmyangel.com/





A Mothers Love goes way beyond the end of time. Done by Ace @Moonlight Studio NY,New York.

In Loving Memory Of our lil Angel Faith Moriah Harley

{Jaded Advice ~when you have come to the edge of all light that you know And are about to drop off into the darkness Of the unknown, Faith is knowing one of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or You will be taught to fly~ Unknown}

Father vs. Dad

Father vs. Dad

So we all know how the saying goes; "Any man can be A father but it takes a real man to be a dad." I strongly stand by this quote.

There are a lot of men with a number of children, that they may or may not take care of. In the sense of being there for the important moments. The men that send a check every month feeling this is sufficient enough to take the place of their presence. Those Men are "sperm donors" as people would call them. They often time leaves this job of being a dad, either to the mother to play both the role of mom and dad. Or they leave it to another man to raise their child. In my eyes these men might as well have went to a sperm bank.

The sad thing about this is that it all becomes a cycle. Now the child without the "Dad" grows up without knowing how to be one. So either they learn the hard way or they don't learn at all. And they continue this cycle for the next generation to either follow or move forward from. Lets hope that it becomes the later we have enough deadbeat dads; to add a few more to society would be a crime all in it self.

Now that I have explained lets just say....." A sperm donor" is, let me explain what a dad is. By the way I am daddy's Lil girl ;D.

A dad is a man that cares for his family. Who loves his children and provides for them the best way he knows how. A dad is a man that is selfless and doesn't let his pride stand in the way of the love he has for his family.

A dad is a man that shows his son how to be the same type of man and better. He tells his little girls they are beautiful, so they wont have to look to another man to hear these words first. A dad is a man that makes sure is family is secure and feels his love everyday he breaths. A dad takes pride in the family he had the pleasure of creating.

I am glad to say not only have I had the pleasure of having a father but also a dad. A man that has shown me "yes I can do it all alone." And that I don't need a man to complete me but to compliment the women that I am.

To all the men out there that are taking care of their family and not letting another man step in to do the job. To all the men that are doing that other men's job. To the mothers that are playing both roles. We show you love on this day that is set aside for you. No, words cant express the gratitude we hold for the jobs that you do. But we sure hope that it gives you an idea of how we feel.

Have a safe and blessed Father's day =D!!!!

{Jaded Advice- Kiss your daughter every night and let her know that she is special- she will never look to another for these words.}

My Fashion Addiction

My Fashion Addiction

I am a Fashion Addict. I go window shopping when ever I can get the chance. And a lot of those times I am mentally spending my check before I have the money in my hand. Yes those are words of an addict.

Yes Yes every girl should be into Fashion and most of them are. But there are those girls that eat,sleep and breath fashion and yes I fall right into that category. And I love it. I like to look at someones Outfit and dress them over in my mind of what piece they shouldn't have put on and what they could have added. It is like living in a perfect world.

Then someone told me "Fashion is not a career". First it was like that stupid pause that use to occur on "save the bell" when Zach would talk about what ever random thing that was going on. Then it was like "Humph now if you could only hear the words that I am saying in my head". Of course those words never rolled off of my tongue because I am "lady like", but if i had they would have thought twice about saying something like that to someone else. Why? or how? in the world are there still people stuck in a bubble about Fashion.

My first real thought about that is clothing is Fashion, no matter if you have a style or you put them together thoughtfully. At the end of the day someone still took the time to design and get those items manufactured. Even if it was for boring old you.

My second thought is please can we come back to reality. If there was no Fashion you would be naked. Even at one point Adam & Eve had to throw something together, because they were naked. And yes may it have been palms from a palm tree or fig leaves; that was still fashion no not fashion as we know it but that was the start of it all.

My third thought is where would this world be without fashion, the models, the designers, seamstress, illustrators and so forth. There would be no magazine pictures to look at. People wouldn't have ads to sell there products. It would just be here this is my product nothing pretty or fancy about it, but I need you to buy it.

And those are the nice words that I would have said to this person stuck in a bubble from lets say the 1900's. Our world is geared by the Fashion Industry please lets not forget this. And Yes this is From the Fashion Addict herself.


So I will continue to Live the life of a Fashion Addict and No I will not go to Rehab.

{hint: Always carry flats in your purse. Please Beauty is not that painful}